Celebrating the upcoming Valentine’s day as something big or not, it can always be a great excuse to treat yourself with something special. For me buying lingerie has never been a thing I do only for my significant other, I always do it for myself in the first place. Yes, it can add some extra excitement in the boudoir, but mainly it should be something women buy and wear for themselves. You know that they say, before you can truly love someone, you have to love yourself.
Even though society sometimes gives you the impression that sexy lingerie’s sole purpose is wearing it for the enjoyment of others, in my opinion you should choose to wear it for your own pleasure. In the end it doesn’t matter if your lover likes it (or even if he/she doesn’t even care about lingerie overall), the most important thing is that it brings you comfort and confidence. Confident people are happier people and they attract those with the same qualities. In the end, you don’t really need a lover to love wearing lingerie.
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